Relationship
has the power to change our whole outlook on life.
Think about how enlivened you feel when someone shows
an interest in you.
Even
if you have no intention of going any further than
a flirt, it confirms something for you. That is the
way the interactive universe works. Strictly speaking,
we don't need the confirmation, but, nevertheless,
we still enjoy it when it comes our way!
The
relationships we enjoy most are the ones in which
we know we are loved, cared for, and recognised as
being special. Whether we are happily married, single,
gay, or going through a break-up, that is what we
want to know. When doubt arises, it is usually because
we are not getting the confirmation we want. The unanswered
questions in our mind become the reasons to be miserable.
There is no longer any
need to go around in circles in your head, trying
to think your way through questions about love,
communication, sexual chemistry,
trust, intimacy, and commitment. Experience is not
the only teacher. Knowledge is power in life, and
relationship is no exception.
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