| Relationship 
                            has the power to change our whole outlook on life. 
                            Think about how enlivened you feel when someone shows 
                            an interest in you.  Even 
                            if you have no intention of going any further than 
                            a flirt, it confirms something for you. That is the 
                            way the interactive universe works. Strictly speaking, 
                            we don't need the confirmation, but, nevertheless, 
                            we still enjoy it when it comes our way! The 
                            relationships we enjoy most are the ones in which 
                            we know we are loved, cared for, and recognised as 
                            being special. Whether we are happily married, single, 
                            gay, or going through a break-up, that is what we 
                            want to know. When doubt arises, it is usually because 
                            we are not getting the confirmation we want. The unanswered 
                            questions in our mind become the reasons to be miserable. 
                            
 There is no longer any 
                            need to go around in circles in your head, trying 
                            to think your way through questions about love, 
                            communication, sexual chemistry, 
                            trust, intimacy, and commitment. Experience is not 
                            the only teacher. Knowledge is power in life, and 
                            relationship is no exception.
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